Mother’s Day can mean a lot of different things for different women
To those who gave birth this year—I celebrate with you.
To those who have lost a child —I mourn with you.
To those who are in the trenches with little ones every day and wear the badge of food stains—I appreciate you.
To those who experienced loss through miscarriage, failed adoptions or running away— I mourn with you.
To those who walk the hard path of infertility, fraught with pokes, prods, tears and disappointment—I walk with you. Forgive me when I say foolish things. I don’t mean to make things harder.
To those who are foster moms, mentor moms and spiritual moms—I need you.
To those who have warm and close relationships with your children—I celebrate with you.
To those who have disappointment, heartache and distance with your children—I sit with you.
To those who lost their mothers—I grieve with you.
To those who experienced abuse at the hands of your own mother—I acknowledge your experience.
To those who lived through driving tests, medical tests and the overall testing of motherhood—I am better for having you in my midst.
To those who have aborted children—I remember them and you on this day.
To those who are single and long to be married and mothering your own children—I mourn that life has not turned out the way you longed for it to be.
To those who step-parent—I walk with you on these complex paths.
To those who envisioned lavishing love on grandchildren, yet that dream is not to be - I grieve with you.
To those who have empty nests—I grieve and rejoice with you.
To those who placed children up for adoption—I commend you for your selflessness and remember how you hold that child in your heart.
And to those who are pregnant with new life, both expected and surprising—I anticipate with you
Happy Mother’s Day to all of you women!